Allah describes the women of Heaven as, “Loving in nature and equal in age. (56:39)
Some scholars have translated the word u’rub in two ways. One interpretation is that they have intense love for their husbands and the other interpretation is that they are skillful at having sex with their husbands. (Hadiyul Arwah page: 266)
Sexual intercourse only with virgins.
Allah Ta’la says, “No human or jinn has touched [these women] before. Then which bounty of your Lord will you both [humans and jinns] deny? (55-74)
The reason for these women being virgins is because a person generally derives more pleasure in having sexual intercourse with them. As mentioned above, Allah Ta’la will also make all the human women into virgins in Heaven. Imam Razi also says in the commentary of this verse that Allah Ta’la mentions sexual intercourse of the world with indirect words. However, in this verse he has mentioned the sexual intercourse of the hereafter in clear and direct words. The objective of this is to show that sexual intercourse in this world is not free of faults and is not perfect, whereas sexual intercourse in the hereafter will be perfect and free of all faults. (Tafsir Razi – 5/130)
Abu Hurayrah narrates that Prophet (Pbuh) was asked, “Will we have sexual intercourse with our wives in Heaven?” He answered, “A person will have sexual intercourse with 100 virgins in one morning. (Abu Ya’la, Bayhaqi, Tabrano, Bazar)
Abu Hurairah narrates that Prophet (Pbuh) was asked, “Will we have sexual intercourse in Heaven?” He answered, “By the oath of that being in whose hands my life is, yes. [Sexual intercourse will be with] hard pushes. When one of us completes the task of intercourse with his wife, she will once again become a virgin and a pure woman. (Ibne Hibban)
Muhammad ibn Ka’b Al-Qurazi narrates from a person of the Ansaar (People of Madina) that Prophet (Pbuh) said, “I take the oath of that Being who sent me with the truth, you are not more acquainted with your wives and houses than the people of Heaven. A person of Heaven will come to 72 wives whom Allah specially created in Heaven (Hoors) and 2 human wives. The human wives will have virtue over the [Hoors] because they worshipped Allah in the world. He will come to the first of his wives in a room made of rubies. [They will be on a] bed made of gold which is adorned with pearls. This bed will be made of 70 different types of silk. He will place his hand between her two shoulders and he will see his hand through her clothes, skin, and flesh. He will see the marrow of her leg just as a person can see the thread inside a ruby. His inside will be a reflection of her and her inside will be a reflection of him. He will be in this condition; he will not become bored of her and she will not become bored of him. Every time he comes to her, he will find her to be a virgin. His sexual organ will not tire and her sexual organ will also not experience any difficulty. [While he is in this condition], someone will announce, ‘We have known that you will not get bored and you will not make her bored. Both the man and woman will not experience ejaculation of sperm. You will have other wives besides her.’ He will go to the other wives one by one. Whenever he will go to a wife, she will say to him, “1 swear by Allah, there is nothing in Heaven more beloved to me than you. (Abu Ya’la)
Haytham At-Tai and Salim bin A’mir relate that Prophet (Pbuh) was asked regarding sexual intercourse in Heaven. He said, “It will be with a powerful desire and a penis which does not tire. Definitely, a person will have sex with a woman for 40 years. [During this time] he will not move away and nor will he tire. He will have sexual intercourse as much as his soul will desire and his eyes will find pleasure in.” (Harth bin Ab’ Usamah, Ibn Ab! Hatim) Hafiz bin Hajar says that if the Tabi’ (Person who saw the Sahabah) sometimes does not mention the final narrator of the hadith, but it is known that he only narrates from those narrators who arc reliable, then most scholars of hadlth along with Imam Ahmed do not pass a judgment regarding this hadith because of the possibility of it being acceptable and un-acceptable. However, such a narration (Known as mursal) is accepted un-conditionally according to the scholars of Kufa, the followers of the Maliki school of thought, and according to one view of Imam Ahmad.
Shuffi ibn Mati’ narrates that Prophet (Pbuh) said, “Definitely, one of the bounties of Heaven is that the people of Heaven will visit one another on swift animals. A horse will be brought to them with a saddle and reins. (It will be ready to ride). This horse will not excrete and nor will he urinate. They will ride this horse until they reach the place which Allah desires. Then, they will come to a cloud which will contain is what no eye has seen and no ear has heard. The people of Heaven will ask this cloud to rain upon them [whatever they desire]. The cloud will continuously rain upon them [whatever they desire] until they receive that which they never imagined. Then, Allah will send a gentle wind and it will spread mounds of musk on their right and left. They will apply this musk on the foreheads and necks of their horses. They will also apply this musk on their own heads. Each man will keep his hair as long as he desires. This musk will stick to their hair, horses, and the rest of their clothes. They will keep proceeding on their animals until they reach the place which Allah desires. Then, suddenly a woman will call out to one of them, ‘0 slave of Allah; don’t you have any desire for us?’ He will ask her, ‘What are you and who are you?’ She will reply, ‘I am your wife and beloved.’ He will say to her, ‘I did not know about you.’ She will answer, ‘didn’t you know that Allah said, “No person knows the joy which is hidden from them as a reward for their deeds. ‘” He will say, ‘Yes, I swear by my Lord.’ Then, it is possible that he becomes preoccupied with her for 40 years [having sexual intercourse]. [During this time], he will not turn his attention elsewhere and will not leave. His only concern will be the pleasure and honor which he is enjoying. (Ibn Abi Dunya)
Kathir Ibn Murrah says, “Amongst the ‘extra’ bounties of Heaven (referring to a verse of the Qurfm which says, “And we have extra by us [for the people of Heaven] “) is a cloud which will come over the inhabitants of Heaven. The cloud will say to them, ‘What do you wish tell at I rain upon you?’ Whatever they wish for will be rained upon them.” Kathir said, “If Allah gives me the opportunity, I will definitely ask the cloud to rain for me beautiful women. (Ibn Abi Dunya) Hafiz Suyuti says that the saying of a Tabii (A person who saw the Sahabah) in such an topic which could not have been determined by a person’s logic and deduction is equivalent to a hadith which is directly from Prophet (Pbuh) except that it will be in a mursal in his right.
Zayd bin Arqam reports that a Jew came to Prophet (PBUH) and said, “0 Abul Qasim, you claim that the people of Heaven will eat and drink.” Prophet (Pbuh) said, “By the oath of that being in whose hands my life is, every person in Heaven will be given the power of 100 men in eating, drinking, and sexual intercourse. (Tirmidhi, Ahmad, Bazzar, Nasal)
Since a person will have many wives in Heaven, Allah will increase the sexual power of the men of Heaven so that they can completely satisfy their desires.